I know what he means too. But I smile thinking about your internal struggle between seeing old friends in NYC and desire to be alone. A nice problem to have on occasion. Good thing my lettuce is so interesting :)
I remember following you through the crush of humanity in NYC— so I can see it all! You needed time to be Jen in the City again for a bit, pony tail swinging and taking care of business— I’m so glad you got it. The ‘wide swaths of time we get back’ really hit me hard. No one else finds the truth like you. All so deeply affecting and beautiful. I got teary about L missing his bro and sis so much— I missed you in the same way and know the feeling. This reminds me that I never checked out Vic’s crops during my visit and I regret it! ❤️
Lovely post. Having grown up in NYC, but living in your current neighborhood, this story has resonance throughout. I’m delighted you are branching out and traveling alone and I love how you share yourself so intimately. .
Thank you, Andy. I loved learning you're reading and am happy for the resonance. Also, this weather in our transplant home? The wind must be stopped...
Sooo happy for you!! I had the same exact feeling recently. Never have left kids for ME . Went to Costa Rica for 2 weeks to do writing on my book. Was exhilarating! Looking forward to reading more of your writing! Ox j
Everything about this post resonated deeply. I went to New York, alone (albeit to visit my oldest) by myself for the first time. I loved my time with her, but I secretly (or not so secretly) loved my time alone. Your words capture the raw emotions mothers (well, me, for sure) feel as we stand at the edge of shifting terrain. Your writing is such a gift!
You see, you are someone I would just think would be quite natural at getting a bag off a claim belt and rolling it to the curb, Shashi ;) I'm so glad you got a dose of the NYC alone magic too. Nothing like it❤️
Got the goosebumps again! You had me laughing out loud and totally relating to all your emotions. Feels good to know we're not alone. But sweet Lew got me at the end. That's how I feel too. Thank you for writing! Please don't stop. And congrats on your big trip. xo
I always look forward to seeing your newsletter in my inbox but particularly loved this one. You perfectly captured the push & pull of motherhood as it evolves. xx
It's always the ones who don't have to care about the lettuce who do ;)
And thank you, Beezy. Of course those swaths do allow for 3 hour phone calls so I guess not all bad?? I think L needs an auntie pep talk on baby beach this summer. He'd be comforted to know you had the same kind of broken heart.
I know what he means too. But I smile thinking about your internal struggle between seeing old friends in NYC and desire to be alone. A nice problem to have on occasion. Good thing my lettuce is so interesting :)
The lettuce is riveting. I'm sure you already knew I thought that.
And yes -- a nice problem that you generously helped me have❤️
I remember following you through the crush of humanity in NYC— so I can see it all! You needed time to be Jen in the City again for a bit, pony tail swinging and taking care of business— I’m so glad you got it. The ‘wide swaths of time we get back’ really hit me hard. No one else finds the truth like you. All so deeply affecting and beautiful. I got teary about L missing his bro and sis so much— I missed you in the same way and know the feeling. This reminds me that I never checked out Vic’s crops during my visit and I regret it! ❤️
my reply didn't go as a reply so it's floating around in the comments like a free radical.
Lovely post. Having grown up in NYC, but living in your current neighborhood, this story has resonance throughout. I’m delighted you are branching out and traveling alone and I love how you share yourself so intimately. .
Thank you, Andy. I loved learning you're reading and am happy for the resonance. Also, this weather in our transplant home? The wind must be stopped...
Sooo happy for you!! I had the same exact feeling recently. Never have left kids for ME . Went to Costa Rica for 2 weeks to do writing on my book. Was exhilarating! Looking forward to reading more of your writing! Ox j
Thank you, Jen ❤️And wait: Costa Rica?! Your book!? I need to hear more!
Long story.. its the Celestine prophecy, meets Harry Potter, meets Star Wars but targeted to 11 year old girls!
Everything about this post resonated deeply. I went to New York, alone (albeit to visit my oldest) by myself for the first time. I loved my time with her, but I secretly (or not so secretly) loved my time alone. Your words capture the raw emotions mothers (well, me, for sure) feel as we stand at the edge of shifting terrain. Your writing is such a gift!
You see, you are someone I would just think would be quite natural at getting a bag off a claim belt and rolling it to the curb, Shashi ;) I'm so glad you got a dose of the NYC alone magic too. Nothing like it❤️
Such strong writing. Thank you for sharing this, felt like I was right beside you.
Oh I really love to hear "right beside you" -- that's the goal! Thank you, Beth!
Thank you, favorite Writer. You can teach the conference next year! I'm so glad you went!
oh my goodness: a new title! I'm changing my instagram bio asap ;) Thank you for reading and writing, Anastasia ❤️
Seriously... “I don’t feel like myself without them here.” Pure, uncut wisdom. Thanks, Lew.
Oh, and thanks, Jen for noting and sharing. Priceless. Can't wait for Part 2.
I'm essentially just the stenographer of Lew's poetic approach to life at this point!
Got the goosebumps again! You had me laughing out loud and totally relating to all your emotions. Feels good to know we're not alone. But sweet Lew got me at the end. That's how I feel too. Thank you for writing! Please don't stop. And congrats on your big trip. xo
Thank you, Lara! And just a few more weeks and we get to feel more like ourselves for a stretch ;)
Isn’t it your husband’s dried artichokes that are interesting? Ditto all of this as well all merrily roll along ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Well that was the one piece of produce I got very excited about as you know -- but for aesthetics, not consumption ;)
and yes: merrily, merrily, merrily...with less spit, hopefully.
I always look forward to seeing your newsletter in my inbox but particularly loved this one. You perfectly captured the push & pull of motherhood as it evolves. xx
Thank you❤️your pre-reading for Italy alone time ;)
Love this post, Jen!
Thank you, lovely, supportive, not scary writer ;)
I get excited to see your name in my inbox and always pause life to immediately read your newest drop! Oh I relate to so much of this latest piece. 🙏
Excitement and immediate pause: I can't ask for more! Thank you, Andrea❤️
Beautiful ending.
Thank you, Alice❤️
It's always the ones who don't have to care about the lettuce who do ;)
And thank you, Beezy. Of course those swaths do allow for 3 hour phone calls so I guess not all bad?? I think L needs an auntie pep talk on baby beach this summer. He'd be comforted to know you had the same kind of broken heart.